Part II of Giving Him a Hand from Woman.ca
This post is intended for readers over the age of 18.
If you missed the first installment, click here to check it out. As always, I’ll remind readers that no two penises are the same, so play with these techniques to find something that makes your dick(s) happy. Sometimes a quickie hand-job under the table does the trick and other times a slow, teasing build-up can produce the most intense orgasmic experience.
As promised, here are a few more moves to get you started and/or finish you off:
The Other Woman
This one is fun and simple. Simply use a backhand grip instead of the traditional forehand to try new sensations. Begin with your palm facing away and move your thumb into a thumbs-down position before gripping the base and sliding up and down and around and around.
The Twist and Shout
This one is broken down into steps, but fear not – the written description sounds a lot more complicated than the real thing.
- Apply lots of lube to your hand.
- Begin with the Other-Woman grip with your palm facing away from you and your thumb pointing down. (See above.)
- Firmly grasp the shaft at the base and slide up toward the head; your palm should still face away from you.
- When you reach the head, twist your hand around the head and over the top so that your palm ends facing you and you’re still gripping the penis from the far side. Pay attention to the ridge and frenulum as you perform the twist, as these areas can be highly sensitive.
- Slide down the other side of the penis.
- With just a tiny bit of practice, this will become a fluid motion and you can alternate hands to maintain constant contact. You may want to try this one on a dildo/vegetable first to get the hang of it.
I Can’t Believe It’s Not Vagina:
Use two very lubricated hands to wrap your interlaced fingers around his entire shaft. Squeeze gently as you move both hands up and down the shaft and pulse as you reach the coronal ridge. A tight and wet grip should ensure that your partner will be unable to discern whether you are using your mouth, hands or other bodily parts to pleasure his member.
Have fun, keep an open mind and always practice safer sex.
Fun Sex Positions
Burn Calories and Improve Flexibility While Getting It On
Warning: this post contains explicit language and is intended for those over the age of 18. If you are not yet 18, please click here for accurate sexuality information.
While sex offers an array of health benefits, one of its more obvious advantages is that it involves some degree of physical activity and you can burn extra calories while having fun. If you are looking to expand your sexual repertoire in the sex-positions department, read on, experiment and find the perfect combinations that work for you. The positions described below involve one man and one woman, but can be modified to suit two women, two men, threesomes, foursomes and larger groups.
The Director’s Chair: In this position, the man sits upright in a chair while the woman sits on his lap with her back to him. She can lower herself onto his penis with her feet on the ground or crouch with her feet propped up on the chair on either side of his legs. The second option will require some serious flexibility on her part — thank goodness for yoga! She can tilt and circle her hips to stimulate her clitoris against his shaft or either partner can use his/her hands to reach down between her legs. This position is even more fun in front of a mirror.
The Wheelbarrow: This is just like the wheelbarrow you formed with a partner when you were a child with the man standing upright supporting the lower body of the woman whose hands are on the ground in a push-up position. Rather than holding her feet, the man brings his pelvis between the woman’s legs. He holds her up by her thighs and she uses her hands on the ground to support herself. Either partner can perform thrusting or circular movements in this position, but the woman will require considerable upper body strength to maintain the movement. If her arms tire, she can take a break, lower onto her elbows and forearms or perform mini butt-pops instead of larger movements.
The Bridge: This position requires some strength and flexibility, but many find it is worth the effort. The woman lies on her back and the man kneels between her legs facing her. She can raise and wrap her legs around his hips as he penetrates her. She then reaches her palms over and behind her head flat against the ground. Her buttocks and hips should be lifted off the floor supported by her partner. When she feels up for it, she presses her palms against the ground to lift her entire back, head and buttocks off the floor so that her body forms a gymnastic bridge with only her hands on the floor. He supports her pelvis and lower body with his hands on her buttocks to reduce the weight she bears on her hands.
The Swan Dive: In this position the man sits on his buttocks with his back upright and his knees slightly bent. The woman straddles his pelvic area on her knees facing away from him so that they are both looking in the same direction. She lowers herself onto his penis and reaches behind her back to clasp her hands behind his neck for support as she leans forward. She should be on her knees with her body leaning forward at a fort-five degree angle to the ground. Her feet come off the ground behind his back and he holds them in his hands for support. Both partners can rock back and forth gently for clitoral, penile and vaginal stimulation. Consider placing a pillow beneath her knees to reduce impact.
Sideways: This position is simple. The woman lays on her side on the edge of the bed and the man stands upright on the ground beside her. She can use her hands, mouth and breasts to caress his penis and testicles and/or he can penetrate her vagina with his penis from various angles. If she rolls over to face away from him, he can stimulate her anus with his hands, mouth or penis. Use lots and lots of lube for anal play and be sure not to insert any objects that have been in the anus into the mouth or vagina without thorough washing and changing the condom.
Progress slowly when experimenting with new positions, make use of your healthy sense of homour and always practice safer sex.