Part II of Giving Him a Hand from Woman.ca
This post is intended for readers over the age of 18.
If you missed the first installment, click here to check it out. As always, I’ll remind readers that no two penises are the same, so play with these techniques to find something that makes your dick(s) happy. Sometimes a quickie hand-job under the table does the trick and other times a slow, teasing build-up can produce the most intense orgasmic experience.
As promised, here are a few more moves to get you started and/or finish you off:
The Other Woman
This one is fun and simple. Simply use a backhand grip instead of the traditional forehand to try new sensations. Begin with your palm facing away and move your thumb into a thumbs-down position before gripping the base and sliding up and down and around and around.
The Twist and Shout
This one is broken down into steps, but fear not – the written description sounds a lot more complicated than the real thing.
- Apply lots of lube to your hand.
- Begin with the Other-Woman grip with your palm facing away from you and your thumb pointing down. (See above.)
- Firmly grasp the shaft at the base and slide up toward the head; your palm should still face away from you.
- When you reach the head, twist your hand around the head and over the top so that your palm ends facing you and you’re still gripping the penis from the far side. Pay attention to the ridge and frenulum as you perform the twist, as these areas can be highly sensitive.
- Slide down the other side of the penis.
- With just a tiny bit of practice, this will become a fluid motion and you can alternate hands to maintain constant contact. You may want to try this one on a dildo/vegetable first to get the hang of it.
I Can’t Believe It’s Not Vagina:
Use two very lubricated hands to wrap your interlaced fingers around his entire shaft. Squeeze gently as you move both hands up and down the shaft and pulse as you reach the coronal ridge. A tight and wet grip should ensure that your partner will be unable to discern whether you are using your mouth, hands or other bodily parts to pleasure his member.
Have fun, keep an open mind and always practice safer sex.
How To Touch a Woman Part II
In Part I of this series, we left off between the legs after a slow full-body caress and tease. Now we’ll explore a few more approaches to sensuous touch to build up tension and intensify orgasmic response. Be reminded that this is not a perfect recipe for success, as every woman is unique. Some will enjoy manual stimulation of the vulva, while others prefer a hands-off approach. The only way to know for sure is to ask. The following is intended as inspiration, not instruction.
Some thoughts on how to touch between her legs:
* Lube up your fingers on your dominant hand and make a W-shape with your index, middle and ring fingers. Place the “W” against the top of her vulva and draw your hand down toward the bottom of her vulva by her perineum. As you pull them down, draw them in toward one another so that you no longer have a “W”, but a flat palm and straight fingers. You can then move your palm back up to the top of the vulva (toward the pubic mound) and reopen your fingers into a “W” formation. Repeat and vary pressure according to her responses. You can use your other hand to gently rub her thighs, abdomen, sides, breasts or legs.
* Use a flat lubed-palm or several fingers to gently draw figure-eights over her labia and vaginal opening.
* Use lots of lube to gently stroke and pull up on her clitoral hood. Click here for a diagram of the vulva.
* Use your thumbs to gently draw circles over her lubricated vulva.
* Gently pull up and down on her clitoral hood to provide non-direct stimulation of the clitoral shaft.
* Consider using blindfolds, restraints, feathers and textured condoms/gloves to intensify pleasure and excitement.
In Part III, we will explore pleasure that includes penetration.
Be creative, take your time and remember to use lots and lots of lube. Have fun and always practice safer sex.